First Thought

One of the first things we do after we get married is quit dating. We feel like it is not as important any more to try to win each other over. WRONG! It is essential that we continue to do this so we can learn more about our spouse, their feelings, likes and dislikes. Somethings change over time so we can get the updates as we go along. It also keeps us communicating which is a major problem with alot of marriages. Spending time goes with this as well and that is definitely good for a marriage. As we are married longer the trend is to do things separately so this helps keep this from starting. The husband feels he does not need to date as he has found his "catch" and he now closes up his feelings and questions and puts them in a box so to speak because he no longer needs them to sound out feeling and thoughts as he once did while hunting for Mrs. Right.